Some men fail to lovingly intertwine their special partners into their happening lives, as women do with our men.
Ironically; for many women, it comes automatically, and with joy, to interlace men into our plans and activities. Though it can irritate, we enjoy the cozy sense of a 'completed' event with a man by our side.
We do a brilliant job in seeking approval before we step out, and ever so adorably inquire their opinion on this or that - just to kindly offer them a meaningful role .
But the problem is, this effort meets only halfway.
Men want their independence and freedom. When they feel they've had 'enough', he'll whine his way into sports or the company of male buddies. Most men do not share the same idea of wanting to share his personal life with her.
They will make the decision first, and then casually, lay it on her. Whether he opens the floor to negotiation is subjective to the type of man he is. Men feel strongest about their ego, and no woman can rule him, not even his mother.
The man has the upper hand.
The woman just needs to learn to work around it.
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